Convincing your family members you want to work from home
Its a difficult ride if you want to work from home and yet, the most important people in your life are against the work at home concept. Its a dream to you but it can be a nightmare for people who care for you. The whole idea of not having a stable income makes them worry about you, so, dont blame them. For all you know, youre terribly confident that your plan will work and you know you can commit to your new work at home businessyou know that but THEY dont.
The first step you will need to take to help your family members accept your work at home decision is to understand how they feel. I know, I know, this is a time when you want others to understand you and accept your decision. Youre tired of working for someone else and want to have the freedom of spending time with your family and friends, instead of lounging around in the office day in and day out. And here I am, telling you that you should understand the very people who are opposing you?
This is not a secret but think of it like some kind of a psychological plan. ever heard of the term reverse psychology? Ok, youre required to use this and let me tell you thisit works like a charm! If you do this right, you will convince your family members that working at home is the best option for you.
Say things like, I know you care for me, love me and want what is best for me., I understand what youre saying, or Youre absolutely right in saying that, I cant say youre wrong. When youre talking to them in a non-attack way, they will back down and bring down their fences. This is an amazing way to help your family members accept your work-at-home decision. Its true, my own family members were not to keen on me wasting my law degree to start a work at home business either to them, I am wasting my degree, wasting my talents and wasting my energy. And they dont want to see me suffer, be disappointed and face financial problems. Being parents, they want what is best for me and in their eyes, working at home is NOT the best moneymaking opportunity. Over the years, I have finally opened my parents eyes to the working at home concept. They finally accepted it that I communicate with clients from all over the world and that I am being paid for the work that I do and that my income is comfortable.
As for the spouse, this is a little bit trickier. You see, in 2-income families, if one person wants to start working from home, the other spouse would have to be prepared to give up more of his or her income to cover for the stuff that is supposed to be covered by the now-working-at-home spouse. At least during the first few months of the business, that is. I mean, for 3 to 6 months after working from home, youll have to expect to dig into your savings or the spouse would have to cover for expenses, so, naturally, he or she would be a little bit disgruntled with the fact. Theyre not being selfish theyre trying to deal with you breaking out of the comfort zone. Everyone, including you, hates that. So, dont expect your spouse to welcome the idea of working from home with wide open arms. Theres bound to be some skepticism.
And skepticism from your loved ones is good too because it will keep you on your toes and youre feet remains firmly planted on the ground. So, the best thing to do with your spouse is to discuss the idea with him or her, sit down and plan the finances. For example, dig into your savings to cover for contribution to expenses, working part-time, telecommuting, cut down on expenses, selling the extra car, remortgaging, etc. Find a way and a plan to ease the discomfort for your spouse. Make sure he or she has nothing to complain about your working at home decision. Its incredibly difficult to accept, trust me, if youre not the one who wants to work from home. If youre on the other side of the fence, everything looks so bleak and uncertain.
Break through their barrier not with force, but with gentle compromising and understanding. Then, youll get their full support for your work at home business.